Anniversaries and important dates

REMEMBERING LOVED ONES THROUGHOUT THE YEAR

Those who are no longer with us remain an integral part of our lives. It is perfectly natural to think of them daily and to miss their presence. Memories and emotions often intensify on days of symbolic significance, such as birthdays and anniversaries, as well as during the holiday season. The most meaningful way to mark these special dates is by visiting the cemetery or church, or by publishing a “Remembrance” (In Memoriam) notice in the daily newspapers. Although the grieving process is painful and long-lasting, we suggest surrounding yourself with friends or relatives on days that evoke particularly strong emotions, finding relief for the soul through conversation and shared memories of the person who left too soon. Sharing your burden with those who know and love you can be deeply healing; often, a friendly touch, a hug, or a shoulder to cry on acts as the best therapy.

A beautiful way to revive memories of the deceased is to prepare a meal they enjoyed or to participate in an activity they loved. If you have the opportunity to organize a family dinner, do not forget to toast the person in whose honor you have gathered. If you have the time, consider helping those in need—assisting others is an exceptionally effective way to alleviate emotional pain. Engaging in charitable activities can certainly make it easier to navigate days tied to special memories. Furthermore, sharing your experience with others in similar situations who need support, such as the seriously ill, is a dignified way to cherish the memory of the departed.

For those who are unable to do so personally, Pokop has developed a range of services to honor the memory of the deceased in the most appropriate manner on your chosen dates. On your behalf, we can decorate the final resting place with flowers, light a candle, or organize a memorial mass and commemorative gatherings for family and friends. We can also take over the complete maintenance of the grave site, visiting it periodically (weekly, monthly, on holidays) or according to your specific wishes, ensuring that the memory of your loved ones lives on throughout the entire year.